Does time speed up for anyone else in May? Maybe it’s the opening up and so many of us getting vaccinated. Or maybe it’s just May. I know that the winter holiday season has the reputation of being the busiest season of the year, but may I offer a counter point. The busiest time of the year is May. Mother’s Day. Graduation. Ending of school. Vacations. The beginning of wedding season- or shower season. And, if you’re like me, you can name a birthday every single day in May. Every. Single. Day.
(Including my own birthday and my mother’s birthday!)
Time speeds up for me in May. Which is great- the year feels like it begins to move and I can begin to see the year more clearly. But it’s also overwhelming, and I’m often left feeling like I should be sending out a mayday.
Between events and gifts and commitments, May can be a lot. I attempt to stay grounded, take time for me, and not over-committ, but there are days when I can’t help but feel behind. What I’ve learned to do is to extend grace- mainly to me. I can’t do everything, so I try to limit my commitments, picking the events that are most important to me (and of course sending gifts).
** Also I buy gifts in advance. Growing up we had a “gift” closet full of things for wedding and baby showers that could supplement more personal gifts. It’s a thing I CANNOT recommend enough. **
In May, and not just on my birthday, I also prevent may days by ensuring that every week has time for me scheduled. From workouts to spa to time with friends to time alone doing nothing, for me it’s the way I know to prevent burn out (and may days).
Because as busy as it can get, May Days are such a joy. And this year as I get to see more people I love, and begin attending more events, I’m so grateful, and ready to celebrate. What are May Days like for you? How do you balance May Days with your needs?
Also, a sad note. My cat did pass on Friday evening. I was so lucky to love her and be loved by her. Thank you to everyone who asked and reached out. Hug your people and pets!
Wishing us all a week of joyful days and amazing shoes! XO RA