#PerfectJeans

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I don’t think that there’s a single clothing item more sought after than the perfect jeans. Jeans have become the cornerstone of a many a wardrobe, replacing suits, and the styles and fits we are now offered can be completely overwhelming. And with any important relationship, finding the perfect jeans can involve trial and error, endless questions, and what can feel like a never-ending quest. To make it more difficult-we all have different bodies and needs. What looks good on one may not look good on another. So what’s a jean-loving lady to do? While it may be tempting to just throw in the towel–don’t give up! While the perfect jeans may not be found today I have a list of things to think and about ask yourself that I hope make the quest for the perfect jean a a little easier!

1. Consider Waist Height
I am a high waisted girl–so this is an area of special importance to me. Remember when the trend was to have jeans barely come up to your hips–those were dark days for me. So if you’re like me and love a high waist some brands to check out are Jcrew, Citizens of Humanity, Madewell. Rag and Bone make some of my fave mid-rise, and JBrand has a great low rise! Almost every brand has a selection of rises-so you may just have to try some. A way to get a sense of how high you might like your jeans is to measure yourself–take a tape measure and start at your belly button–go down just below your hips. This number will give you your own “rise”, and you can use it to gauge, especially if you’re shopping online!

2. How much Stretch?
Newer jeans tend to have some spandex in them, vintage jeans tend to be all cotton. This is more of a personal preference–I like a little stretch, it makes me feel a little sucked in and keeps the shape a bit longer. That being said if you can find a perfect vintage Levi–or I recently got a Madewell pair without stretch that I love, they can fit like a glove, though you may have a break-in period. Just be aware that without stretch you may have to play with your size!
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3. Length
Crops are in. Does that mean you need some? No–I’m a fan of only buying trends that fit your body–but it does give an option. My go-to length is right at the ankle, but for flares prefer a longer inseam. To measure your own, place the tape measure on the inside of your leg (as high as it goes) and measure down–take note of where it hits your ankle, and think about heel height. Some brands offer a tall option in sizing (JCrew) if that is something that you need!

4. Leg Opening
Skinny, Super-Skinny, Straight, Wide,Boyfriend, Flared–I’m a fan of all of these, but if I’m blindly reaching I go for skinny, they seem to fit best. I do have (and love) variations of all of these cuts–my main advice is to think about your silhouette. Not every pair needs to be super tight, but even your Boyfriend jeans need to have some shape so they don’t swallow you!

5. Wash
I love a darker wash with some sanding down the leg–it’s slimming. Just like any other piece of clothing the color, and any fading, matter. So even in a lighter wash, watch for sanding or fading in the middle of the leg–it helps you look longer and leaner

6. Pockets
Let’s be honest–we care about how our butts look in jeans, and pockets deeply affect that. The best bet? Small pockets that are placed in the center (if they turn in a bit, great!). The general rule of thumb is that the bigger your pockets, the bigger your butt will look.
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I’d love to know–what are your go-to brands? What do you look for in a pair of jeans? Some brands I’m dying to try are AYR and Diesel. I’m also curious about the sites that send you jeans to try on for free–has anyone tried them?

Happy Thursday! XO RA

Making an Investment a Basic

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I started this blog not only because of my love for fashion, but because I truly believe that fashion can be a great investment and can help you express yourself. I’ve spent a good deal of my time saving and investing in pieces that I know will last–but the question can often be, now that I have this investment, how can I use it on a regular basis? The answer can depend of course on what your investment piece was–sometimes it’s simple, buy a great bag and use it! However, I think we all can be guilty of saving for something and then treating it as if its too precious, when the point of buying is to use it! This is not a call to treat great things poorly (I can write another time about the internal cringing I do when I see expensive bags being thrown on the floor), but rather a call to enjoy your life (that special day you’re waiting for is today) and to make the investment piece you worked for a basic!

Take for example this amazing Chanel dress. Chanel is known for being timeless and classic–and this dress is all of that, and while the temptation is there to save an expensive dress for a special day, I’ve made it a point to wear it as a basic–like any other black shift dress. The result? Even grocery runs feel special. And it looks great with everything from sneakers to heels. So what are you saving for a rainy day? Why not wear it today?

Happy Wednesday! XO RA
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Details:
Chanel Dress, bought at Recess LA
shown with:
Stuart Weitzman Boots
New Balance Sneakers
and Louboutin Pumps

Oscar Fashion

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I’m sure by now you’ve seen all the images from the Oscar Red carpet-you have your favorites, have tried to find Margot Robie’s dress online (or is that just me?). Being an actress the Oscars have always held a special place in my heart, and the red carpet is one of my favorites! It is the one where not only does anything go–there is an air of glamor and “old-Hollywood” that I just simply adore. But you’ve seen the pictures. So let’s talk after party–the best things happen at the Vanity Fair party, and others throughout town, where the stars change and let loose a little bit. See below for some of my picks from the after parties–I’d love to know, what was your favorite Oscar fashion? Favorite after party fashion?

Happy Tuesday! XO RA

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Clogs

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So the thing about tights–they make everything better! From dressing up clogs (which also go great with skirts and pants) to make short dresses seem a little bit longer to just making you feel special (because that’s what Mondays sometimes call for), they got your back. I love the retro-feel of this look, and also love that it didn’t feel costume-y. And every piece works great on its own-win, win, win.

Happy Monday! XO RA

Details:
Dress, Zara, old, similar here
Tights: here
CLogs: Vintage Prada, similar here

Sunday Chronicles: Leap Year

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There’s a favorite saying of mine “People worry about wasting money, worry about wasting time. Time is not a renewable resource. Money is”. While is this not a call to be careless with your money, it is a call to be aware of your time. Tomorrow is leap day–the one extra day that we get every four years. A whole extra 24 hours (and yes we could complain that it’s a Monday–but time is a gift). No matter what you value or what you like to do, time is what makes up our lives–and it’s finite. So what are you going to do with your extra time? From work to relaxing to pampering yourself, I hope that you get to take this gift of an extra day and do something special with it–what ever that means to you!
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Wishing us all a week of meaningful time and amazing shoes! XO RA

Spring Layering

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We are ever so surely inching towards spring–but don’t worry, that’s no reason for us not to layer (it’s really the secret to life) and shy away from materials like suede. The secret? Keep it colorful like this pop of blue, use a shirt dress for a pop at the hem and wear comfortable mules. The good news? Everything is perfect on it’s own (you may recognize the Art dress, I’ve worn it many times with everything), the skirt looks great with just a t-shirt or a sweater, and the shoes go with everything. And together–perfect spring layering!

Happy Friday! XO RA

Details:
Dress: Rodebjer
Skirt: Asos
Shoes: Zara

Pleated

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You may have read this week that it’s official–midi skirts are no longer a trend, they’re a staple. To those of us who knew how flattering they are and how they go with everything this is not news. I love midi-skirts and use them inter-changeably with my fave jeans. My current variation on repeat? Metallic pleats. Just enough pop, just enough neutral. I wore this exact outfit to two different events–so you’re seeing the different shoes–I love that it lends itself to anything you put on, and this bomber jacket is not only trendy–but super comfy and goes with everything!

Happy Wednesday lovers! XO RA

Details:
Jacket: Asos
Skirt: Kate Spade, old, similar here also love this one and this one
Shoes: Wedges, Jeffery Campbell, old, similar here
sneakers Addias

Fashion Week Changes

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While fashion month is pushing forward, NY Fashion Week is over. We got to see a lot of exciting collections- and got some announcements that look to change the way fashion week works in the future. Fashion week, no matter where, is typically a designer or fashion house presents their collection (men and women separately) of the coming season (so fall presented in spring,etc). While this gives us clothes to look forward to, and trends to track- it can leave the consumer waiting months for the collections. Well this year many designers/houses decided to change the game- huge houses including Burberry, Tom Ford- announced that from now on they would present a co-Ed collection that would be ready to shop. In other words you would be able to see a runway show and buy those same clothes the next day. This is coming at all price points and is being billed as a way for fashion to put consumers first. We’re the consumers- what do you think?

I’ll admit I’m looking forward to seeing how this works- and the thought of not having to wait to shop always makes me happy!

I’d love to get your thoughts!

Happy Tuesday! XO RA

Classic

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There are jokes about wearing all black–and the women who do so. It’s become a cliche-right?
Here’s the thing about cliches though–they often have some truth in them. Or in this case, flat out work. Want to feel pulled together? All black. Nothing matches? Wear all black. In a mood? Black. Want to look classic? Black is your go-to. And I’m in love with these separates–whisper thin turtlenecks, perfectly cropped pants, classic bag and heels. Monday? Black has it handled.

Hope your week is off to a great start! XO RA

Details:
Top: Free People
Pants: JCrew
Bag: Chanel
Shoes: Coach, old, similar here

Sunday Chronicles: Permission to do Nothing

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Friends! It’s been a week, hasn’t it? I’ve been busy with work and commitments, and have also been battling sleepless nights. That’s not always bad- I’m a little Type A and I like being busy. Which is good- we live in a society that glorifies busy. I’m sure you’ve heard that before – but have you ever taken a moment to think about how true it is?

We love busy. We encourage busy. We are all supposed to have jobs we love and activities we love and when we aren’t doing those things we need to have plans- with our friends, or learning a new skill or something. The main point? We aren’t supposed to have time unaccounted for- we should always be doing something. I love my job, I love spending time with friends, learning skills – all of that. However, the busier I become the more I cherish doing nothing – and long for unaccounted time.

What we forget is that doing nothing and unaccounted time are both actually good for us. They let us relax, unwind, recharge- and believe it or not become more creative. If you were to start a new workout regime your trainer would talk to you about rest; that recovery is an essential part of the program, and how you wouldn’t see progress without it. So, how did we get so far away from that truth in every other area of our lives?

I don’t have the answers friends. However, I do know that this week I’m giving myself permission to do nothing. To have some time set aside for nothing. And whatever shape that nothing takes- reading, movies, art, relaxation- I’m going to let myself enjoy it!

Wishing us all a week of nothing and amazing shoes! XO RA