How to Blow Out Summer

Investment Piece: How to Blow Out Summer

How to Blow Out Summer: You could go the typical way to blow out summer (not talking explosives). You could start with a pool, or the ocean, add your friends, some great food and drinks. That’s a typical way to blow out summer. We aren’t typical. To blow out summer we start with white, all white (because some of us still believe we only have till Labor Day to do so). You can do sweet white, but as we’re blowing out summer, let’s try some edge, yes? Like this necklace from Sydney Curtis (she’s @aireheartbysydney on Instagram and you can find these amazing pieces at Elaine Kim in LA). I love that it’s so long that it’s a choker and a long necklace in one. And that over the shoulder? Let’s blow out summer!

Investment Piece: How to Blow Out Summer

How to Blow Out Summer: I can’t get enough of these white pants with slits up the legs. (You’ve seen them here). It’s classic, but with an edge. You can wear them to any formal gathering, your legs stay cool, and you’re able to easily let people know that you came to blow out summer. I recommend white heels (though I love the grey on these) with white pants, it enlongaates the leg. And is something to flaunt. Let’s blow out summer.

Investment Piece: How to blow out summer

How to blow out summer: Make it Dramatic. I love the monochrome white for this, though you’re tempting red wine and food stains at your own risk. Let’s balance that leg slit with a tad bit more coverage on top. I love the long sleeves, a slight nod to what’s to come, but the white celebrates where we are. And a tunic top can hide some destruction (food stain or not). Let’s blow out summer.

Investment Piece: How to Blow Out Summer

How to Blow Out Summer: Have some fun with it. You’re wearing white, you can do anything-pool party, concert, dinner, drinks, bbq, New England lobster bake, whatever trouble you can find! Have a great time: go crazy, enjoy the heat, Rock your white. Let’s Blow Out Summer!

You can shop my picks below! I hope that you have a safe and fun Labor Day! While we’re off Monday (check my stories and Instagram for how I blow out Summer), we will have all the best sales for you! Be careful, have fun, and wear white!
XO RA

Trend to Try: Back Packs

I don’t know that it’s a new trend, or if we should even call it a trend; however, I do know that a trend you must try this fall is a back pack. They’re not just for back to school.

From leather to canvas, more school like to chic, there’s a back pack for every kind of woman you want to be.

And here’s the great thing about this trend: not only can these backpacks be chic, it’s a trend that’s completely practical! I don’t know about you, but I have days where I need everything-from my computer to makeup. And while a ton of bags for everything isn’t the worst idea, having a chic back to hold everything is so much more practical–and easy!

From gold to classics, to ones with charms there’s a backpack for every price point and style. I’m in love with classic leather ones. And what I love even more? Vintage ones! On Etsy and sites such as the RealReal and Vestiaire Collective, you can find vintage and resale luxury backpacks. From Coach to Dooney&Burke, to Gucci and Louis Vuitton, there are some amazing (pre worn in) and classic back packs to sample. Chic and a bargain!

The other great thing about this trend to try? It’s not really a trend, backpacks may not always be fashionable, but can you name a time when they don’t sell them? So the great news? Indulge your whims here, though I recommend a classic leather option, because this a bag you can carry forever. Yes, that may take some of the trend out, but it means that you’re making an investment. And how great is that?

Investment Piece: Trend to Try: BackPacks

 

Shop some of my fave picks below and let me know: how are you rocking the trend to try backpacks?

XO RA

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How to Beat the Heat

Investment Piece: how to beat the heat

How to Beat the Heat. Step one: Get a pool. Get an ocean. Get some water. Water helps cool you down in heat.

Investment Piece: how to beat the Heat

How to Beat the Heat. Step two: shorts. Jeans, and pants, and even some dresses will leave you burning up. Shorts are tricky–finding the right coverage, the right length, the right material. But, as tricky as shorts can be, they are one of the best ways to keep your legs cool and beat the heat.

Investment Piece: How to Beat the Heat

How to Beat the Heat. Step Three: the right shoes. At this point, you may be thinking that these shoes aren’t the best for beating the heat, but loves, hear me out. In the summer, it’s so tempting to throw on your flip flops. And I get it. And flip flops have their place. But when it’s one million degrees outside (not an exaggeration), the sun bakes the concrete. Flip flops, for all the good they do, are on top of the hot concrete. The result? Your feet bake. They swell. They get too hot. Maybe heels aren’t for you, but they do put a layer between you and hot concrete.

Investment Piece: How to be the heat
How to Beat the Heat. Step Four. Cotton, breathable, and open. What I love about this specific cotton shirt dress is that it buttons every which way-up the front, down the back, up each side; making it wearable as almost anything-from a dress to a top. The venting also makes it cool even when the heat is unbearable. In this instance, worn as a shirt over shorts was the best option to make it through summer heat!

Investment Piece: how to beat the heat
How to Beat the Heat. Step Five. Fans, cool drinks, and when you can’t take it anymore, I suggest finding the nearest place with AC where your makeup, hair, clothes, etc won’t melt!

Investment Piece: how to beat the heat

I hope that the last week of “summer” is amazing for you and I hope that whatever you’re up to, you’re beathing the heat and staying cool!

Check out my shopping picks below!

XO RA

As many of you know, I’m from Texas have families in the areas affected by Harvey. This has been one of those times when fashion and all things fun seem to take a back seat. Our thoughts and prayers are with Texas, but they need our action too. IF you can Red Cross could use your donations!

Punk Ballerina






Part Flash Back Friday, part end what you started with, I couldn’t resist this repost of gold from years ago! (Remember loves, we started the week Eclipsed by Gold”). I still love (and wear) this gold dress- it’s the perfect combination of easy and fancy! These shoes are my go to’s (especially when I need to feel a bit strong), and I will take a trip to Paris any day! I’ve updated your shopping options, and am still in love with Megan Weaver (and excited to shoot with her again!)!

Loves, we know that I love ballet and all things ballerina. However, I don’t always love looking so sweet–there has to be balance. So I love the look of a ballet inspired dress with some tougher shoes (even addias or converse would work) and an attitude of a bag! It’s soft and yet not so soft! The perfect combination. I’m really a big fan of balance-tough and sweet, sexy and modest, and I love that these elements combine so seamlessly here!

I also have to give a shout out to my photographer, Megan Weaver for amazing photos! You can follow her on Instagram @meganmweaver and online at Megan Weaver

Happy Friday!
Xo RA

Details:
Dress: Zara
Shoes:Louboutin, similar here
Bag: Kate Spade, old

Updated shopping:

I hope your punk and ballerina sides play nice this weekend!
XO RA

Purple Feelings

Investment Piece: Timeless Vixen
Investment Piece: Purple Feelings
Investment Piece: Purple Feelings
Investment Piece: Purple Feelings
Investment Piece: Purple Feelings
Investment Piece: Purple Feelings

Purple is one of my favorite colors, and not just because it’s my school’s colors, TCU-Go Frogs! It’s the perfect shade, right between red and blue, not sad, not angry. It’s shaded. I love it! So when it comes to lady like vintage dresses from one of my faves Timeless Vixen, I can’t resist it, and all the purple feelings it brings!

This dress: I love the two shades of purple, the pleating, the detail on the sleeve, the ability to go from casual to dressy!

Purple feelings–the subtle ones, the ones a little magical, the ones that are shaded? Those are something special too!

And the combo of both of those in this dress? Amazing! I have worn this dress to pop-ups, and casual lunches, but know it will look great at a formal tea I have on my books. One of my favorite things about lady-like looks? They’re completely classic, go anywhere, and the juxatipositons they leave themselves open to!!

Hope today your purple feelings and your lady like dresses get celebrated!

Shop my picks below:

XO RA

Loves! If you haven’t shopped this sale yet, you must! The prices are insane!

Eclipsed by Gold

Investment Piece: Eclisped by Gold
Investment Piece:Eclisped by Gold
Investment Piece: Eclisped by Gold
Investment Piece: Eclisped by Gold
Investment Piece: Eclisped by Gold

Loves! Happy Eclipse Day! Do you have your glasses? Are you going to watch? Is it affecting you? (As you may know, I’ve been battling a major headache all weekend, I’m hoping this is not one of the changes that this eclipse will bring!)

And speaking of being eclipsed- when was the last time you were eclipsed by gold? Metallics can be one of those items that people tend to shy away from; but loves, gold is a neutral, one that may make you shine, but a neutral. It goes with everything, and yet you are guaranteed not to blend in! I’m in love with this vintage gold dress from Recess LA, the shine, the pocket, the easy fit. I’ve worn it with sandals for an easy dinner, and with heels for a party.

Is it as great as the solar eclipse? Not a chance, but I’m hoping that the gold is still shiny!

Enjoy the Eclipse! Shop my picks below and make a golden one for yourself!
XO RA

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Investment Piece: Eclisped by Gold

Rock my Givenchy Dress

Investment Piece: Rock my Givenchy Dress
Investment Piece: Rock my Givenchy Dress
Investment Piece: Rock my Givenchy Dress
Investment Piece: Rock my Givenchy dress
Investment Piece: Rock my Givenchy Dress

Loves, there are times when Beyoncé is just right. I’m so reckless when I Rock my Givenchy Dress. (Side note: I’m also happy, confident, charming, sassy, and funny when I Rock my Givenchy dress. It’s pretty limitless). If you follow me on Instagram you’ve seen this dress–it’s vintage Givenchy from The Kit Vintage. It’s just perfect. It’s a silk linen blend (great for now, great for later). The black makes it classic. The pop of color makes it fun. There’s a bit of a button that can allow you to make it low cut (date night) or modest (work meeting). I’m just in love. And reckless when I Rock my Givenchy dress. (I couldn’t resist, it’s Beyoncé).

But, this is vintage, so I know that it can be frustrating. I know it’s not just something that I can tell you where to buy it. Loves, this is what I can do for you: I’ve linked similar dresses (and these exact shoes below!), and if this exact dress is something you’re interested in, I can recommend searching for it. Your fave vintage place, Etsy, 1stdibs, or a general Google search might be able to help. What I would try? Givenchy dress. Givenchy floral dress. Givenchy linen blend dress. Givenchy short floral dress. My experience? Things take time, but things show up. I hope you like what I picked for you. If you’re off to hunt, I wish you luck!

Either way, let’s get a little reckless, a little responsible, a little happy this weekend (in or out of our Givenchy dresses).

XO RA.

And don’t sleep on this deal!

Investment Piece: Rock my Givenchy Dress

Self Care

Investment Piece: Self Care

Loves, it’s been a week. Right? I know so many people right now who are overwhelmed and stressed, be it from back to school woes, personal issues, or simply just paying attention to the news. (And if you’re into this sort of thing–Mercury is in Retrograde). Let’s just say, it’s been a week. And when weeks are weeks there are different reactions. Maybe you’re plowing ahead determined to get things done and make something happen today. Maybe you’re taking some down time, reflecting. Maybe you just don’t know what to do. Loves, I feel you. And with everything swirling, I have to be honest that I, too, have been overwhelmed and didn’t know what to do. So, loves, I’ve made today self-care day! An official holiday? No, but maybe it should be, self care is important-no matter what you’re going through–and doesn’t have to be a full spa day. (Although if there’s a way for me to do yoga and drink wine all day, I’m in). Below I’m sharing some of current self-care favorites. Over on Instagram, in my stories, all through out the day I’ll be sharing how I’m practicing self care today. Let’s take care of ourselves. So that we can take care of each other.

XO RA

Investment Piece: Self Care

I’m so excited to talk to you about Skin Print! They’re a skin care line (medical grade) that you’ll be hearing a lot about! But for today–this exfoliatiant is my new fave thing, I can feel my black heads dissolving. And if you’re like me and waking up puffy this EyeDeal eye cream is perfect. I have never had a product automatically reduce my puffiness and make me feel human. I’m in love. And nothing says self care like eyes that aren’t puffy! You can buy Skin Print here

Investment Piece: Self Care

Now that we’ve established that skin care is self care, let’s chat some of my other fave things. This Recherche Beaute’ cleanser is simply luxurious, and leaves me skin so soft! You’ve seen this face oil before! I use it (mixed with sunscreen) as my makeup, it leaves me just the right amount of dewy! And is shoppable over on the Amazong picks tab!

Investment Piece: Self Care

Loves, we know that I don’t wear a lot of makeup, but I’m a big fan of confidence boosts (and self care is connected to your self confidence!) My way? A great mascara, and when called for a bit of help in the eyelash area! This Marc Jacobs mascara is one of the best I’ve ever tried (pro tip: curl your eyelashes all the time, heat up your eyelash curler for extra umph!) And you’ll be getting a full post on my new fave thing-these magnetic flash lashes from one-two lashes. Even I can do them, and they make me feel amazing! How’s that for self care?!

Investment Piece: Self Care
And while self care doesn’t have to smell good, isn’t it better when it does? I’m in love with this Elizabeth and James dry shampoo, and this cologne from Whole Foods has become my summer scent (I’ve even dropped it in my bath!). Feel good, smell good.

Some of my other favorite self care methods? Working out, painting, reading, movies, time alone, time with friends, shoe shopping, drinking enough water, naps, wine, and your favorite treat! I also love this piece from Postive Health Wellness about self care and confidence; and this piece on 7 Easy Self Care Methods!

I’d love to know: how do you practice self care??

Shop some of my picks below and make sure you follow me on Instagram Stories today!

XO RA

Don’t Go In The Water

Investment Piece: Don't Go In The Water
Investment Piece: Don't go in the Water
Investment Piece: Don't Go in the Water
Investment Piece: Don't Go in the Water
Investment Piece: Don't go in the Water
Investment Piece: Don't Go in the Water

Is there any saying more ominous than the classic “don’t go in the water”? Especially when it’s accompanied by the iconic image of a shark (and that gorgeous gal swimming above him. Years ago, when I found this shirt I couldn’t help but love it–it has pockets and that neckline! And, beyond that, it’s a classic summer tale. I first saw “Jaws” when I was 7. It took me years before I could swim in the ocean again. I took the warning “don’t go in the water” very seriously.

But loves, this is fashion, not sharks. And just like I can’t help but pull this t-shirt out every summer as the ultimate summer ode, I also couldn’t help but pair it with clothes that aren’t meant for the beach. Nothing will keep me out of the water like protecting stunning shoes! I’m in love with the flare and the asymmetric leg of these pants–it’s makes anything a bit more fun, because even avoiding sharks can be something to laugh at! These Miu Miu bootie were one of the first luxury items that I hunted down (Vestiaire Collective is one of the best sites for this). I love them. I would fight a shark for them. And this small turban is one of my fave pieces to liven any look up! (You can see the first time I shot these pants here, and this turban from way back when this was only me and my iPhone here).

Together? This combo, at a little hotel in LA screams summer–the water, the palm trees, the colors, the cry “Don’t Go in the Water”. Hope your Wednesday is every bit as fun!

Shop my similar picks below XO RA
I even found these booties in black for a special someone who is a size 5 (and they’re under $200!!)

This sale is still worth your time:

Investment Piece: Don't Go in the Water

Kisses!

Investment Piece: Kisses!
Investment Piece: Kisses!
Investment Piece: Kisses!
Investment Piece: Kisses!
Investment Piece: Kisses!
Investment Piece: Kisses!

There’s something about wearing a scarf as a top that screams summer to me.(Probably because it’s a move I often use at at pool, but that’s a different post!) It’s a move that can be incredibly casual, but it doesn’t have to be. I’m just in love with this kisses! scarf from Realisation Par is perfect for everything from shirts to adding flare to your hair or a favorite purse! (I also love their cherry one!)

But I couldn’t help but “fancy up” my kisses! Scarf with this stunning vintage YSL skirt. (Note: I know it’s a bit different in every light, it’s a real, true purple). The silk is stunning and it’s become my new neutral-I wear it with everything. The shoes are becoming another staple (vintage Gucci), and all together I like to think this kisses! Combo is the perfect summer outfit for nights out.

Investment Piece: Kisses!
Also, this outfit makes me feel like Carrie Bradshaw, and any outfit that does that is in a win in my book!

Happy Monday!
XO RA

I’ve linked some similar pieces below:

And don’t sleep on this sale!

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