A time to Transition….

a woman in a black Angora skirt and a pink agnora sweater with white and patent black sock boots
a woman in a snake print dress and sandals in the midst of  doors
a woman in a pink and black knit fringe dress in the midst of doors
a woman in a caped giraffe print dress in the midst of doors

Yesterday was the first day of spring- or the start of Aries season and the new year astrologically speaking. (Here we are a fan of new seasons and new beginnings). Spring- and a new start- are the beginnings of oh-so-many- things: from new fashions to new feelings, new habits, and new us. The start of anything is also a time of transition. We put away out winter clothes, carefully fold and store our sweaters- maybe do a closet clean out. Get out our shorter skirts, shorts, and sandals. Embrace warmer weather and begin new routines.

Spring and all the new- I love it. And it’s fun and exciting and I can’t wait to show you my new, and to build new routines and habits (ya know, new year new me). Share the season and things with you. And yet, I want to acknowledge: even in the best of times, transitions are hard. We can go back and forth (if you believe my great-grandma we have at least one more hard freeze before Easter! So maybe leave at least a sweater or two within reach.) Transitions by definition mean leaving some things behind, and humans at even our best are not always great with change. (Perhaps you’re also like me– really wanting the new from fashion to habits but sad about all the winter things you didn’t get to from fashion to activities).

So, if transition is hard and new is exciting and yet we have to deal with them both at the same time- what is it exactly we do? Or, more apt, how do we chicly and calmly transition?

I don’t know that I have all the answers (and yes, I do at times find change a bit more difficult than I would like to admit). But I will say- we move at a pace that is comfortable for us, we wear things that make us feel like us and look chic, and breathe.

How else do you suggest we transition?

I am open to any and all tips! I can’t wait to share and showcase all my spring fashions (and the house!) And show you my transitions from clean-outs to redecorating. What are you looking forward to this season? And again- how do you transition- and what do you wear?

XO RA

Spring Break?

a woman in a silk sheer caftan with orange and blue flowers on it stands in front of a blooming tree and a White House

It is Spring Break in oh so much of the country….and we may be 3 days out from the most of our house construction being done.

Loves. The last few months- year?- has been oh so hard. I have lost myself. Not gotten dressed. Become a bit of a hermit (though there are times that staying in bed with the cats have been fun!). And yet- with what’s a break I can’t wait to start finding my way back to myself….

More on that to come. More outfits. And more thoughts on the theory that maybe here we should start over.

Thank you for sticking around. I hope that if you are on a spring break it’s a true and rejuvenating break. And if, like me, you’re in a season where you are beginning to find your way back to yourself – I am hoping the journey is easy and joyful.

Updates and outfits and hopefully a completed house coming….ASAP

XO RA

Sick and Sicker

a woman in a blue pant set with purple feather shoes on a bed with a lace bed spread

Before anything I am so sorry we didn’t get a post up on Monday- that was total oversize due to:
So there is a chance I jinxed myself. I mentioned to a friend that I almost needed to get sick for a break, and that maybe it was a good reset. And then. Well. I got sick. Since Sunday I have been running fever on and off and throwing up. Plus all the aches. I don’t think I am super sick- but I am sick.
(note: being sick while your house is under construction is not fun at all! I do not recommend).

I am sick enough that moving from bed is an issue and a lot is on hold. Friday I will post some stories I love- and then we are crossing our fingers we are back- and even having gotten a little reset on Sunday.

Make sure you wash your hands out there!

XO RA

Personalized from Abbott Lyon

Recently I got (was gifted but that does not affect my opinions) special pieces from Abbott Lyon. From the high quality to the personalization- I can’t get over how much I love these pieces and how these pieces add to my day to day. My favorite is the charm necklace (made for my cats, as I have become that cat lady!) that lets me take my loves with me everywhere! And you can treat yourself of someone you love by getting 2 for 1 site wide with code LTK2for1. Below I am linking my faves but the whole site of Abbott Lyon is a must!

What do you love to wear in your day to day? XO RA

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Getting there in Sequins

a woman in a sequined leopard dress in front of a grey washer dryer in an unfinished room

We are getting there- this week my house may get walls, painting may start- and we should be on our way to not having so much chaos. There are days when it is completely overwhelming and I feel as if I will never get my life together. Literally, a sentence I said aloud today was “One day I will have clean hair again”. (Note: a bun hides a lot!)

Then there are days when I am able to enjoy this time- even relish the excitement and the new.

On the days like the first, it can be hard to think straight- much less get dressed. And yes- there are days I am simply in sweats. However, to the surprise of no one, I find when I make myself get dressed days like the second come easier.

This look? Perhaps a bit over the top- but I love it. Leopard is a neutral, but having it in sequins makes so much of a statement. And! I have to let you know- I am not great at laundry, but that may change as this new washer/dryer is my new favorite thing. EVER. It works so well- and everything from my bedding to gym clothes come out so clean! (Did I also mention that as we were without a washer/dryer I haven’t done laundry since mid-December? Only 4 more loads to go!)

My goal this week? Have great days, laugh- and wear things that make me happy. Like sequins. This dress is vintage Lillie Rubin but I have found you modern options! And I am linking the washer/dryer as I can’t tell you how they have changed my life, and how amazing they work!

To enjoying it all! XO RA

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Designer Spotlight: Rei Kawakubo

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By now the Met Gala, theme of Rei Kawakubo, has come and long gone–you probably had an opinion about the red carpet, and may agree with me that Rhianna won it (just because she stuck to the theme). Or it may be a faint memory (in all of the Met Galas since). While we could chat Met Gala, themes, red carpets and Rhianna’s style, you may have a great grasp on those. What you may not have is a wide understanding of Rei Kawakubo, her designs, and her label Comme des Garçons. Loves, you should know. Kawakubo and Comme des Garçons are fashion in its highest form, and I don’t mean that you’ll find the perfect LBD; but in the sense that clothing will be playful, fantastical, experiment with shape, form, and gender roles, push boundaries, and be a calling to something higher.

Comme des Garçons and Kawakubo are known for original designs, big shapes, non-genderconforming designs, and mixing tailored pieces with corsets. The first few collections were done in only black, white and gray; and the runway shows to this day are more performance art than collection presentation. Comme des Garçons were the first to present designs that seem conventional now: unfinished hems, asymmetry, black, overblown and deconstructed silhouettes; what we wear today holds a debt of gratitude to these collections that read more like poetry than a standard runway. Kawakubo is known for playing with these themes:
-absence/presence
-design/not design
-fashion/anti-fashion
-model/multiple
-high/low
-then/now
-self/other
-object/subject
-clothes/not clothes
These these run through every collection and are on view in the 150 outfits on view at the Met.
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Rei Kawakubo was born in Tokyo in 1942, the oldest of 3 and the only girl.After college she took a job in advertising/textiles, but also worked as a freelance stylist. With no design background, Kawakubo started her line in 1973, opening her first boutique in Toyko in 75. Comme des Garçons grew, adding a men’s line in 78, presenting in Paris in 81, and opening a Paris boutique in 82. Kawakubo now splits time between Paris and Toyko. Known for powerful and directional design that’s been called “radical abandonment of conventions” and “stunningly audacious”. Kawakubo not only dares to rework the relationship of clothes to the body, she involves herself in all business aspects from graphic design to advertising to shop interiors. However, Rei Kawakubo is till thought of as a recluse, an extreme introvert who keeps to herself; even though she is a fashion icon, she doesn’t think of herself that way.
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Kawakubo and Comme des Garçons have inspired all aspects of fashion, as well as sub labels such as Junya Watanbe, Tao Kurihara, and Comme des Garçons Tricot. There are also several collaborations Comme des Garçons participated in including ones with :Fred Perry, Converse, Speedo, Nike, Moncler, Lacoste, Cutler and Gross, Chrome Hearts, Louis Vuitton, H&M, and Supreme (all of which might be found on a luxury resale site or eBay). Much of what we wear or think is cool is owed to Kawakubo.

Shocked that someone who is a self admitted shy girl can design clothes that make such loud statements? I’m not. Isn’t that part of the fun of fashion? It speaks for us, when we can’t? In fact my favorite quote about Kawakubo comes from Paul Gaultier, who said:
“I believe that Kawakubo is a woman with extreme courage. She is a person with exceptional strength. Moreover, she has a poetic spirit. When I see her creations, I feel the spirit of a young girl. A young girl who still has innocence and is a bit romantic. Yet she also has an aspect of a fighting woman, one who fears nothing as she thrusts forward.”
If your clothes can say all that, what else is left to say?

I’d love to know: what are your thoughts on Rei Kawakubo and the Met Gala?

XO

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Snake Style

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It’s Lunar New Year! And the Year of the Snake!

(This is where I want to let you know that Lunar New Year is not something I grew up with, or is a part of my heritage- so I won’t go on like I am an expert. In fact, some of my first lunar new years were purchasing special cosmetic sets. Yet, I love the idea of yet another fresh start. And while snakes are really not my thing- though you wouldn’t know it by my fashion- the idea of shedding your old skin and becoming someone new? That I can get behind. So, I will be wearing red (for luck!) and dressing in the chicest snake styles I can find. Like below!)

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And one of my faves:

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In fact, I love snake style- from accessories and jewelry to shoes, to anything from suits to dresses. It’s animal print, it’s subtle, it’s bold. And this year if it brings us a bit of luck and is a bit of reminder to become new? I’m in.

Below are a few serpents I am currently taking inspiration from- Happy Lunar New Year! XO RA

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A Closet Clean Out?!?!

a picture of racks of clothes including blazers, sweatshirt dress, boots, knit separates and more

Since November I have been needing/wanting/planning to switch my closet from summer to winter.

As mentioned in so many precious posts- the work on the house (and to be fair, all the trauma and big feelings and moves and etc) made that go on that back burner.

Then this weekend- in part of need, but also wanting to help those affected by the fires- I intended to start again. Then we had meeting with contractors, and our reconstruction starts today.

Tell God your plans and make him laugh?

And yet? In the midst of all the crazy– I intend to clean out, switch out, and redo my closet. To give to those who need it. And to help me. So, once again I am looking over my own old advice- taking heed, and will be making adjustments as needed. (You know I will keep you updated!)

The links I am looking back at:
another closet clean out

the process

closet detox

and of course thinking on how to improve this closet reveal

What are your best closet clean out processes? Any tips for me?

Here’s to the actual clean out and the process we love! XO RA

Trying to be Chic….

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fashion, blogger, high fashion, fashion stories, winter's last stand
fashion, blogger, high fashion, fashion stories,
fashion, blogger, high fashion, fashion stories, winter's last stand

On Monday I wrote about staying chic (and warm!) while the weather turns cold….(get refreshed here)…and maybe I tempted the weather? We are experiencing our first real cold snap, and weather, and I have to be honest- I haven’t always looked chic while praying for snow and dealing with freezing rain. This look above? I love it (though let’s be honest- I would really need tights as cold as it is right now!) But I do believe that staying warm doesn’t necessarily mean we can’t be chic….or at least I am trying to convince myself of that and change out of sweats!

Wish me luck on that!

Lucky one of you! I found some one these exact boots in a size 38.5! I do find Miu Miu runs a bit tight so these might be best for an 8- but they are comfy and I can promise compliments!

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And here’s the part where I say (beyond the cold), I haven’t done much since Tues/Wed as my heart has been breaking watching my beloved LA be ravaged by fires. LA made me who I am, was home for years, and is still a part of me. To watch places I love and go, watch friends lose everything, worry about evacuations, and grieve for all the animals and history— I truly have been paralyzed and grieving. Below are links to organizations on the ground and state wide that are working to get supplies and help to the people and animals that need it. (Also, if you want a more personal gift but don’t want to go the Go-Fund-Me route, if you google Los Angeles restaurants and animal shelters may are taking donations!). We are all a tragedy away from losing everything– and I don’t know what the secret to life is– but I know the most persistent question that life asks us is “Are you your brother’s keeper?” I think we are- we are here to love our neighbors (all of them, even the four legged kind) and take care of each other. Our neighbors need our love right now and I hope you join me in giving what we can.

XO RA

World Central Kitchen

Los Angeles Fire Department Foundation

Los Angeles Regional Food Bank

The YMCA and other local community centers are also accepting donations- as is LA Humane Society

Stay warm and safe and loving out there!

Resolutions…..

I feel as if you’re in 1 of 2 main groups when it comes to resolutions (or goals, or making it your year, etc)-

ALL IN:
You’re making vision boards, plans, writing lists, etc. This even applies if you’re one who thinks the “real” new years is Aries season!

Out:
You’re planning on being the same great person you are, and aren’t letting the “pressure” to be “all new” get to you. Or maybe you think that the years should start being better (and not you)- this is also a valid point!

Honestly, I’m historically a bit of both- having big goals and plans, but not going over board with being all in. Mainly, as I have usually been starting years in shapes (not just my body) that I was mostly happy with- so it was simply building on that. However, last year was a year. We are still dealing with the house repairs- which lead to some illness, a bit of depression, and me not feeling like me. So, my overall goal for the year? Get back to me- or perhaps recreate me. From putting passion back into what I love and makes me happy like (like this! Grow our community again) to getting more consistent in my workouts (I know. Cliche!), there are lists of personal (and professional) goals I am determined to work towards, change, etc. So, from vision boards to being accountable here, these below are just a few that I am becoming this year:

Getting Dressed
a woman in a black turtleneck and skirt with black loafers and dangle earrings

I know, that sounds so basic! But with how I felt for a chunk of last year- from physically to mentally to it all- there were days it was hard to get out of bed. Getting dressed at times was an impossibility. Yet, getting dressed, playing in my closet, coming up with outfits that bring me joy and tell a story? I really think it’s part of why I’m here (and not just on the blog). So. I’m getting back to. I know that there are days when it will be hard (I write this in my gym clothes that I haven’t changed out of). But we are getting dressed this year!

Consistent in the Gym/Diet
a woman in a pilates studio in black tank and leggings with a scarf and rain boots

I know this is oh-so-cliche. BUT. I used to love working out- it helped my mental state, I loved the way I looked, and it was social for me. Due to (waves hands in the direction of it all), I haven’t been consistent- and yes, I will admit I want to lose the few pounds I’ve gained, and tone up again– but I also want to feel better. And I know how I eat and move my body affects that.

Beauty
a woman in striped shirt and her hair in rollers leans in towards a bathroom mirror
Beauty as both self care and another way to play, skincare to tools, make up and more- I’m in it all.

Dry January
I also want to crush Dry January- as a little kick off (below I’m linking my fave wine alternatives!)

There are other goals of course- I want a creative hobby (I’m going to try embroidery!), to find some balance, get back to blogging and “influencing” (I kinda of hate that word but that’s another story!), to sleep schedules and more- maybe it’s not “new year, new me”, but it’s a better and more happy me.

What are your thoughts on resolutions and what are yours? I would love to know!
XO

I have rounded up a few things I’m buying or thinking of buying to help kick start these resolutions!
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