Nights in LA

Investment Piece: Nights in LA
Investment Piece: Nights in LA
Investment Piece: Nights in LA
Investment Piece: Nights in LA
Investment Piece: Nights in LA
Investment Piece: Nights in LA
Investment Piece: Nights in LA

Nights in LA can be just as magical as the mornings. There is always something going on: from premiere to event to just a great burger. You might have to watch yourself on a LA night, there’s the tempation to think you might be left out, that maybe you’re not at the right event or venue, but I really don’t buy that. My experience has been that any night, any place can be amazing, if you’re with the right people. And lucky for us all, I’ve been known to bring my own drama (the sleeves on this dress!); and I’ve found that if you’re looking for magic LA nights will give it to you. Look at that light!

We can talk about any event, but let’s talk about this dress. It’s all statement: the low back, the sleeves, the length. Part witchy, part goddess, all magic; just the way I like it! And the great thing, this dress is deceptive. It’s the softest jersey, so while it can turn heads, it’s a throw on and go type of dress. I promise. What I love about statement dresses (or statement anything) is that they don’t need a lot of help. Wear your hair natural. You can throw on flip flops if you need to, I did. You don’t have to try too hard, the dress does it for you. This dress is a Norma Kamali, I love that her style is drama with out the fuss. Her jersey is some of the softest that I have ever worn, the cut is always great, and there’s always an “it” factor: sleeves, a deep back, or both! (You’ve also seen some of her swimwear here)

This night in LA was indeed magical, but there was no special event. My photographer, Katy Shayne, and I simply were craving a great burger, and may be a martini or two. The light was perfect, and I was in the mood to wear this dress. And I was able to talk Katy into shooting me. That simple. Nights in LA are magic, but the best kind of magic is the kind you bring yourself: a great dress, a great friend, a great meal, a great laugh. Premieres can be fun. Events make me happy. But there are a ton of LA nights that have left me breathless, and all that was needed was a great dress!

I’d love to know: what’s your brand of magic, or statement dress for Nights in LA (or anywhere)?

Shop my picks below:

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Pop of Leopard

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Are you tired of hearing that leopard is a neutral yet?

I know, I get it, I hear you. It can be hard to hear the same thing over and over again. (Even if I am right when I say it). So, let’s switch it up. Maybe Leopard isn’t a neutral. Maybe it’s a big pop. Maybe it’s something that can turn an outfit into an OUTFIT. Sound better? More doable? Ok, then it’s decided. Let’s do a pop of leopard (at least for today).

I think what happens when we hear the same thing over and over again; or look at things through only one lens, we miss a lot of what’s possible. It’s human nature. I’ve admitted more than once that I’ve tuned my mother out, only to turn around and find that she was right (about a lot. It’s our secret). Our closets? The same thing. We label something as a neutral, or conversely as something special, and we refuse to see all the other ways that we could wear it. Yes, it’s a thing we all do. But by doing this, we miss out on so many amazing opprotunities. (We’re talking fashion, but I’m sure that there are other things that this applies to. Think hard). We made an arrangement; so today, instead of thinking of leopard as a neutral, we’re thinking of it as a pop. What does that change?

Of course the easiest way to make leopard a pop is to keep the rest of your outfit neutral. I’m not afraid of a good Candian Tuxedo (Example here), and actually think one can add value to our wardrobes. Let’s level with each other, we all need a great pair of jeans (These Point Sur, old, are some of my faves as the wash, and rise are just classic. I’ve picked a similar pair for you here). They are the perfect thing to throw on in almost any situation. And what’s better than a great pair of jeans? A great chambray or jean top. Throw it on with almost anything. The trick? Don’t be afraid to pair them together. (Pro-Tip: You want them to go together but not match exactly). Once you have this basic combo down: add a pop. It works every time.

Because we agreed to, today it’s leopard. I just adore these mules, but any pump, or belt, or bag would do. The thing for a pop is that it has to be different than the rest of the outfit, and it’s great if it has a little sass.

This combo would be great for running errands, brunch, casual drinks, and a casual dinner.

What’s your fave pop? And how do you rock it?

Shop my picks (affiliate links, no affect to your price) below and let’s make leopard a pop!

XO RA

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Flash Back Friday: Winter Florals

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The saying goes that so much can change in a year. And that’s true right? People come and go, we change our minds, our clothes, our shoes, our states. I take pictures of myself for a living. (Ok, that’s not all of it, but in many ways, it boils down to that) So, I’ve developed this weird fascination of looking back at what I was wearing a year ago: do I still love it? do I still wear it? do I still have it? It makes FlashBack Friday’s and Throwback Thursday’s both morbid (like an autopsy) and fun. What I was I wearing a year ago? This winter floral dress. And I do still love it. And I do still have it. However, I don’t wear it often. Here’s the great thing about looking back: it can remind me what I have, and encourage me to wear it!
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We’ve had spring florals and fall florals–why not winter florals? I have to say, I love these moody florals, the darks and the pops of color–I like that it’s completely season appropriate but it feels fresh. Especially when you pair them with pop of color shoes. And the frills and the back? Amazing! (Loves, this is where I confess that I had this dress altered, we opened the back a bit and took in the waist some) The price is what really makes this dress stunning –it’s HM, yes, HM. Perfect for any thing this winter can throw at you!

(Side Note: let’s not sleep on HM ever! Some of my most recent finds there are showcased here, here, and here)

XO RA

I’ve updated my winter floral shopping picks (these are affiliate links, I do receive some commission on these, though there is no change to your price!) There are some great, and very similar HM winter floral dresses!

How to Gift

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Loves, it’s that time of year. We’re giving, we’re getting, we’re buying gifts. And most of us think that we’re great shoppers, but does that make us great gift givers? In other words, do we know how to gift? And how to find the best gifts for those that we love? I’ve been beginning to work on my Holiday Gift Guides and these questions have been on my mind. What makes a great gift? Do we know how to give one?

Probably yes, and probably no. Gift Giving isn’t as straight forward as other shopping: there’s more pressure, more temptation, and this time of year can flat out be overwhelming, which means we may be shopping fast. So, how do you gift in a thoughtful way, and find things that your loved ones will love? I’m here to help! I like to think that besides being a professional shopper, I’m great at giving gifts. However, there has been some trial and error in my gifting. Below are some of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in how to gift; I hope that you find this helpful!

Stay Appropriate
I don’t just mean with gag gifts (which I think are difficult to pull off), but with price and big-ness. I think we’ve all been on both the giving or recieving side of a gift that was just too much. Either too expensive or too big for the relationship (think that one guy who you went out with twice and he gave you a ring for Christmas–that’s what I’m talking about). Here’s the thing- I get wanting to go big. I love to shop, I love finding things that I know people will love, I love giving gifts. So when I find something “perfect”, it can be easy to get caught up and forget that it may be “too much”. The solution? Have a conversation. Yes, it might be awkward, but will save you having a much more awkward conversation later on. Not sure if you’re exchanging gifts? Ask. And set a budget if needed, set expectations. That gives you a place to start, and makes it easier to control yourself!

Really Listen
People have a way of telling us things without being direct. The people in your life have probably told you what you want–even if they haven’t given you a wish list. The trick is to really respect it. Your mom doesn’t want anything over $40? Stay within $40. Your sister keeps saying how tired she is? Give her a spa day. Gifts don’t have to be big, the most meaningful gifts are ones where we let the other person know that we hear them. So don’t be afraid to really listen to what your loved ones want–and give it to them.

Events are great gifts
If you love a shopper like me, the risk you take is that we will buy ourselves what we want. An alternative? Give events–plan nights out, buy concert or ballet tickets, plan trips. All are not only great ideas, it gives the shopper in your life a place to wear her clothes. But this isn’t limited to shoppers. As we get older exchanging gifts with every friend can be too much, but a dinner/coffee/drink together is always a lovely treat! My suggestion? Plan it for the new year, when everyone has a bit more wiggle room in their schedule!

Gift Cards Aren’t Bad
You can get a gift card to just about anywhere now–the movies, dinner, coffee,as well as “cash” gift cards. I know that some look down on gift cards as they aren’t “thoughtful”, but I think they can be. Know someone who loves movies but doesn’t get to go? A movie gift card is perfect (and if you get a babysitter if they’re a parent, even better!). Know someone who is saving for a big purchase? A donation to that cause can be incredibly thoughtful. I think it goes back to the listening thing! In appropriate places, gift cards can give someone what they really want!

Other gift giving tips? I found these articles from LifeHack, HuffingtonPost, and Real Men Style to be a great help!

Our gift guides start in earnest in the coming weeks, although you can see our gift guides from last year on the side bar.

I’d love to know–what are your tips for gift giving? And what would you like to see in a gift guide?

XO RA